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    The Little Deaths of Divorce The Little Deaths of Divorce

    The Little Deaths of Divorce

The Little Deaths of Divorce

 

by Arianna Jeret

When I entered the field of divorce mediation, one of the common statements I heard was that in the rating game of potential life traumas, divorce ranks second only to the death of a very close loved one in terms of the impact on the divorcing spouses and their family, friends, and workmates. Having since discussed this with my own friends and clients, I thought I would look through the big, beautiful lens of the internet to see what else has been said about this.

I […]

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    Fear, Negativity and Revenge in Divorce, Are They Legitimate? Fear, Negativity and Revenge in Divorce, Are They Legitimate?

    Fear, Negativity and Revenge in Divorce, Are They Legitimate?

Fear, Negativity and Revenge in Divorce, Are They Legitimate?

by Patricia Hubbard

Is fear of your impending divorce situation causing you undue distress? Are you worried about your job safety or some other nagging possibility? Is all this necessary?

Our Priest, Father Jim recently made a joke about fear. He said the letters of the word, FEAR stood for “Forget Everything and Run.”

Oh, if life were that simple. But wait a minute…maybe it is!

Feelings of fear are really a belief in something that is not yet real! I will repeat that…Feelings of fear are a belief in something that is not yet real!

Yes, our […]

  • Suggested Reading
    Suggested Reading List for Divorce Suggested Reading List for Divorce

    Suggested Reading List for Divorce

Suggested Reading List for Divorce

Clients often ask for a reading list to help not only themselves but their children understand and manage their emotions during this time.

Here are some books that you may find helpful:

For the adult going through divorce…

Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends by Bruce Fisher

Rebuilding Workbook: When Your Relationship Ends by Bruce Fisher

The late Bruce Fisher was well-known for his “Rebuilding Relationships” seminars. This classic bestseller explains the nineteen “divorce process rebuilding blocks” – from denial, fear, and anger to adaptation, loneliness, […]